KUNYAZA

KUNYAZA:GUSWERA UMUGORE AKANYARA
Mbere yo gusoma iyi nyigisho menye ko kubaha uwiteka aribwo bwenge kandi kuva mubyaha ariko kujijuka ntabwo rero nashiriyeho iyi nyigisho ubusambanyi ahubwo ni ukwigisha abubatse ingo kugirango babane neza bashimishanya
Ni uburyo bwo guswera buryoha cyane yaba k'umugabo cyangwa k'umugore ufata imboro yawe ariko ugafata ngufi ubundi ukagenda uyihonda kuri rugongo(agashyimbo) umanura uzamura buhoro buhoro ukagenda wongeza ukurikije uko ububobere bugenda bwiyongera,ukinjiza imboro nka rimwe mu masegonda ijana kandi ukirinda kugeza kure,kuko uburyohe kumugore buba hafi, ubwo rero ntibisaba kwinjira cyane, icyo gihe umugore asohora amavangingo ashyushye  maze ubushyuhe bukamukwira umubiri wose ndetse n'umugabo akumva agize akanyamuneza n'ingufu zikiyongera. Guswera rero ntibisaba imboro nini nkuko bamwe babyibwira icyo bisaba ni ugutegurana neza. Mugabo rero irinde guhohotera umugore wawe kuko nawe aba akeneye kuryoherwa mugihe cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina kandi menya ko kuryoherwa kwe guturuka kuri wowe.


NB: burya kunyaza ni mubwonko niyo mpamvu mbere yo kugire icyo ukora mugomba kuba mwembi mwumva mubifitemo ubushake. Dore ibice bimwe nabimwe byo kumubiri w'umugore wakoraho akumva ashaka imibonano mpuzabitsina: ku gitsina ni ho hambere iyo wahageze biba byakomeye,mu biganza,mumusatsi,ku mabere,ku matako ye cyangwa ku mabuno, mu matwi.

I.KUNYAZA:POSITIONS ZO GUSWERA UNYAZA

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU BITSITSINO

Umwicaza ku butsitsino maze amaguru akayarenza hejuru y'ibibero byawe agafata hasi yishingikirije ibiganze bye maze ukamuswera ukamunyaza yajya gusohora ukamufata mu mugongo kugira ngo atisimbiza kubera uburyohe bwinshi akavunika.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU NTEBE

N'uburyo bwiza cyane bwo kunyaza kuko ntawe buvuna kandi wicara ku ntebe y'urukiko n'umugore bikaba uko mukegerana maze amaguru yanyu agasobekerana aye akayahagarika ku tubaho ku ruhande bigatuma igituba cye cyiza imbere cyane noneho ukamunyaza. Ubu buryo bwo guswera ntibuvuna. Bifasha umugongo kutaruha kandi akanyara neza kuko umugongo urambuye.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA UHAGAZE

Ni uburyo bwo guswera buryoha nabwo. Munyuranya amaguru maze ukamutazura agasa nuteye intambwe, ukuguru kumwe ku ntebe,ku gitanda,cyangwa se ikindi kintu kigiye hejuru ho gatoya ukundi hasi; ugafata umutwe w’imboro ukajya uwukomanga kuri rugongo maze rugongo igashibura ibinyare ariko yuhagira umugabo umubiri wepfo wose. Ubu buryo bwo guswera unyaza bukunze gukoreshwa igihe abantu badafite umwanya n'aho kubikorera heza ariko bamwe bagahitamo kutabihomba bakabikorera ahantu nko mu bikoni,mu iduka,mu ishuri,ku modoka, muri biro n'ahandi bitashoboka ko baryama .Kuko abantu icyo gihe basohorera hasi bisaba kongera guhita utunganya aho mwabikoreye.

II.UBURYO BWO GUSWERA UNYAZA

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA N'URUTOKI

Iyo umugore ashyutswe umuswera ufashe umutwe w'imboro maze ukayikomanga kuri rugongo ugacumita nka rimwe mu masegonda 100 ukamushimisha inkonji wazamura imboro igakora hagati yimishino maze umugore akarekura amazi wamanura nanone imboro igakusha imishino maze hakavubuka ibinyare.

• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUNYATIRIZA

Ni uburyo buryohera abagore ukubita imboro hagati y'imishino yombi maze ukajya uzamura umanura icyo gihe umugore aritsa ahumeka ukabona ko aryohewe,ubikora nk'imashini ntumutekereze kugera aho amisha ibikari bishyushye inshuro zose ushaka.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUTSIBURA

Uswera ufashe imboro ukayitsibagura kuri rugongo uyikoza ku mutwe wayo maze ugatsibura gahoro ku mishino nk'uko baca umugani mu kinyarwanda ngo'umushishi w'umushino ntushira inogonra' maze agasoko kari hagati y'imishino kagatungereza maze ukungikanya akanyara .

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKUNGUTA

Ni uburyo bumara umugore ishwira.Imboro uyinjiza mu gituba ugafata umutwe wayo maze ugakunguta ujyana mu mpande zose z'igituba hepfo no haruguru mu mpande no mu muzenguruko wacyo. Abagore bafite imbyaro nyinshi barabikunda, bamena amavangingo menshi avanze n'urukonda.Umugore ukungutwa cyane ubona ahorana umwera ariko anezerewe ku buryo iyo atabibona arwara za rubagimpande ndetse no mu nda.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMA

Ufata imboro ishyutswe ukayinjiza mu marebe y'igituba maze ugafata imishino ukayikurura usa n'uyipima ku mboro maze ukayifatana nimboro maze ukazunguza umanura uzamura utambitse ariko ukoza imboro kuri Rugongo. Imishino ihita ireta nk'amabere maze ikivuruganya.Ugomba kwitonda kuko umushino ushobora gucika cyagwa ugakomereka mu gihe ugize cyane UTARIMO GUCUNGA.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUJABAGIRA

Ufata isonga y'ururimi ukayipima hagati y'imishino na rugongo maze ukajabagira nk'imbwa inywa amata yatangira kunyara ugapfundikiza isonga mu kenge kazana amavangingo maze agasa nuhejeje umwuka ukarekura maze agasa n'aho acitse amaferi.Ugomba kwirinda kumira amavangingo kandi bikorerwa umuntu wapimishije ko adafite imitezi CYANGWA IZINDI NDWARA ZANDURIRA MU MYANYA NDANGABITSINA kuko ushobora kuyandura mu kanwa, uko igituba kinuka afite imitezi ni nako mu kanwa hawe hanuka/wabigirira umugore wawe gusa nabwo uzi neza ko adasambana.

*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMISHA

Umukobwa ahenesha undi cyangwa umuhungu udashaka guswera akoresheje imboro maze agashyira urutoki mu kibuno kugeza aho ruhenengeye maze wakunva asa n'uniha ugasakuma imishino ugasa nuyikama ugarura mu muraru we maze buri uko usesetse urutoki ugakama imishino ye, ahita asuka amazi agataka akarangiza.Icyitonderwa: ushobora gukomeretsa inyama zo mu nda iyo ufite inzara ndende.

III.MBESE UMUMUGORE WANJYE/INSHUTI YANJYE Y'UMUKOBWA BASHOBORA KUNYARA?

Mbere na mbere wowe muhungu cyangwa mugabo banza ubwawe wikure mu mutwe ko atanyara. Wemere ko anyara kandi ko niba atanyara azanyara nimumara kubimenyera no kubigerageza inshuro nyinshi kandi wige kunyaza nk'uko nabikunyuriyemo haruguru kuko umugore ntapfa kunyara aranyazwa. Hari uburyo bubiri bwo guswera unyaza.

1.GUSWERA UNYAZA UKORESHEJE IMBORO

Ubu buryo bwo kunyaza ushobora kubukoresha mu guswera iyo utajya usohora vuba.Ufata umutwa w'imboro ukawukunguta kuri rugongo(banayita agashino,agashyimbo)kugeza igihe haziye inkari zishyushye.

2.GUSWERA UNYAZA UKORESHEJE URUTOKI.

Kunyaza ukoresha musumba zose UGAKINISHA RUGONGO uzamura umanura vuba vuba ubundi akanyara.Gusa gukoresha urutoki biraryoha cyane kuko rwo rudahusha ku buryo uswerwa agera aho yibagirwa imboro wayizana akayisunika yishakira urutoki.

ICYITONDERWA: hari igihe umukobwa aba atarakora imibonano mpuza bitsina cyangwa umugore akaba ataranyazwa ushobora kumunyaza ariko ntibikunde kuberako imiyoboro iba itarazibuka,wicika intege komeza bizaza kandi azagushimisha cyane wumirwe. Ikindi nababwira nuko imvugo nziza izana umugisha murugo MURAKOZE MURAKABYARA HUNGU NA KOBWA